How do you get through the day with out wanting to cry all the time !
It gets easier with time! You've got to know how to be your own person, outside of the relationship. You'll never survive unless you have your own friends, hobbies and jobs to focus on. Occupy your time and remember that you aren't in a relationship so that you can be miserable, you're in a relationship so that this person can enhance your life. So live your life, and be happy that you've got someone who loves you along for the ride.
How do you deal with the sexual frustration within a ldr?
Depends. You can try Skype/FaceTime/phone sex/sexting if you're comfortable with that, if you're at least 18 and if you know how to be safe about it.
Or you can simply take care of things on your own, and have sex when you're together.
Or you can just be frustrated.
Hi, I'm having a problem. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 months and his birthday is coming up and I thought I would give him something "special", and he asked me to give him a blowjob. I would try it but the thought of it grosses me out.. Any tips?
Don't do anything you're uncomfortable with. Not everyone is into that, and if you really don't want to try it, don't do it just because it's his birthday. If you want to give him something "special" in a sexual way…think up something on your own instead of asking what he'd want. Would you be comfortable buying some cute lingerie and dressing up for him? Is there a new position you know he's wanted to try that you can test out? Do you want to buy/make some dice that have an action and then a body part, making a game out of things? Just think into what you would be okay with doing - because he'll still be happy with whatever you're comfortable with!
What would you most like to see offered by The Miles Between?
What would you most like to see offered by The Miles Between?:What other long distance themed things would you be most likely to buy if it was offered? Please vote!
Advice, stories, and support for long distance relationships!
Advice, stories, and support for long distance relationships!
Advice, stories, and support for long distance relationships!
Advice, stories, and support for long distance relationships!
SO, I heard back from a job up by Mike! It's an employment...
SO, I heard back from a job up by Mike!
It's an employment agency, and they said that they are going to find me work in the beginning of July. So I will continue my nannying, and then hopefully BE MOVING WITHIN THE FIRST FEW WEEKS OF JULY. OH MY GOD.
But that won't be possible if we don't have enough saved. Please please help!
PLEASE - BE A SMALL PART OF HELPING ME CLOSE THE DISTANCE.
Okay, I'm not going to beg you for money, but I will beg you to order these bracelets! First of all, they're super cheap ($3!!!). They're an ADORABLE way to connect yourself to your SO and to the LDR community. And buying them will SERIOUSLY help me out.
(They all say "LOVE CONQUERS", because love conquers distance. They're red to represent the red string of fate. Symbolic, whether you're in an LDR now or have been lucky enough to close the distance!)
Mike has a job, and he's saving as much as he can, but right now we don't have enough to put a down payment on an apartment. I need to be with him as soon as I possibly can. I don't want to keep putting it off because we don't have enough.
So I'm not asking you to donate. I'm asking you to buy adorable bracelets and help me out in the process. Spread this around, too please!
Make sure you've ordered yours for you and your long distance boy or gal!
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Please reblog this post to get the word out :)
Anyone know a reason my video won't upload to youtube?
It’s 10 minutes 33 seconds… it’s a .mov file….. anything? Is that too long? wah
Even though I'm not i n a long distance relationship anymore, I still follow you. I love your blog. Your relationship truly inspires me. <3
You're awesome, thank you<3
For the first time, I talked about my trust issues with my ldb. We're together because I cheated on my ex with him, and I told him that I didn't entirely trust him not to do something like that again. He seemed kinda upset that I didn't trust him, but I wanted to be honest with him. Now I feel like he's being emotionally distant and I don't know how to make it up to him :(
Well, be open with him again. It's understandable that you'd have trust issues, but you were the one that cheated. The fact of it is that you don't trust him not to do what you did to your ex…so explain that to him. That you know it's entirely possible for cheating to happen and that scares you, but that you are going to work on your trust issues and hope that he forgives you for feeling that way. And then just give it time. Usually things like this blow over after a little while of feeling awkward and "different". Just try not paying it any attention after you apologize/explain, and eventually it will most likely be forgotten and things will go back to normal.
My boyfriend just got his license (yay!) and hopefully we'll be able to see each other more often now. But instead of him ALWAYS going to where I am, I've been thinking about buying train tickets to go to him at times. The problem is that I don't want my mom to find out because she doesn't really like him (she hasn't even met him yet, she just won't give him a chance! so I know she won't approve. I'm not sure what to do :(
If you're underage, do not get on a train and go there without your mom knowing. If she finds out, she is going to dislike him even more and lose her trust in you.
Let him drive to you, but help pay for gas. On one of his trips down, arrange it so that he meets your mom, and hopefully she will slowly get to know him and grow more comfortable with the idea of the two of you being together. Then you can approach the topic of you traveling.
I get why you'd want to go visit him, it would be more fair that way, and it's exciting! But your mom is already iffy about the relationship, and you don't want to give her any reason to be proven right.
I've suffered from an eating disorder since I was 12, and went to rehab during my freshman year. I met my boyfriend three months after I was released, so he never really saw the bad side. We broke up and I had a really bad relapse(not because of that), but recovered. But now I'm slipping back. He says I'm beautiful and I feel terrible for not believing him. He feels inadequate and says he can't prove beauty because he's not here. How do I make him believe its not him/distance, but me?
I would suggest to him that he does some reading up on eating disorders. People go through years of therapy, rehab, hearing family, friends, boyfriends, girlfriends, even husbands and wives tell them they are perfect the way they are and they don't believe it. All your boyfriend needs is to be more informed that it's not a conscious choice you're making to suffer from an eating disorder…it's not you not believing that he thinks you're beautiful because you think he's lying or he doesn't care enough… It's a hard thing to understand, but he needs to try to start learning, for both of your sakes.
And I hope that you are getting the help you need to get through this. Stay healthy, good luck to you!
Me and my LD girlfriend and I have been together for awhile now and since we're both young, there's no telling when we'll both be able to see each other. I send her little care packages so I don't feel so far away but she always says that the distance is unbearable and she doesn't know how much longer she can take it. She doesn't want to leave me though. I have no idea what to do.
You'll just have to wait and see what she decides…but make sure to tell her not to string you along forever. If she can't deal with the distance, then she has to make the hard decision to end the relationship. All you can do is tell her what you want and how you feel…and hope that in the end she decides that it's worth the wait to her.
Hello there! I'm currently in a long distance relationship, almost at two months and we've basically been on and off since 2011. A lot of people say I deserve more by the way he treats me and sometimes I just don't know anymore. He lives in England and I live in Australia, is that crazy? idk. I have depression as well and he keeps saying how much he'd prefer the first girl he fell in love with. I'm constantly trying every day though to be that girl again.. Just doesn't feel enough?.. Idk..
Okay, England to Australia is far…but not "crazy". If both of you are willing to move to each other eventually to make it work out, then the relationship has potential despite the distance.
I don't know how he treats you that makes your friends and family worry and think that you deserve more…but that is definitely something to take note of. Are they right? Do you deserve more than what he gives you or better than how he acts towards you? If so, think about ending things. You shouldn't settle for someone who isn't treating you right.
And I can understand how hard it must be for him to deal with your depression and different moods…Mike has issues with that, and it's really difficult, and I can understand where he's coming from. However, he needs to understand that depression isn't a choice. It's not just something you can snap in and out of on command. If he doesn't love the person you are at all times, then he doesn't deserve you. The only way you'll be at your happiest is if you're with someone who loves you through it all, the good and the bad.
I'm in an ldr during the summer and during that time I have a lot of people from church ask me if I miss my bf. I of course say yes, but when my mom is with me when someone asks that she butts in saying "Well they text all the time and call every day and have skype...blah blah blah." It really annoys me because it sounds like she's saying that I can't miss him because of technology. She of all people should know what it's like because my dad is a truck driver. How can I tell my mom this?
She is probably only trying to stick up for you a little bit - let them know that you do get the chance to talk to him and that there are so many ways to work through the distance nowadays! And, of course, just being a mom, pointing out to everyone that you're constantly texting or using technology…all moms do that. They think it's funny that we spend so much time with it!
If you are really getting offended by it, then just hint it into the conversation. When she says that after you're telling someone how much you miss him, just say something like "yeah but it doesn't change the fact that he's not here, technology isn't the same as being in person" and leave it at that. The more often you say it, the more likely your mom will be to get the point.
I LOVE YOU.
AW don't be anon, I love you too :)
This is the simple look in the video I'm about to put up...
This is the simple look in the video I'm about to put up once it finishes uploading. Basic grays, a perfect look for your first time meeting your SO! Lets your natural beauty shine while still looking cute :)
SUCCESS! For those of you who have been asking for make-up...
SUCCESS!
For those of you who have been asking for make-up tutorials…I finally did it!
I made two videos today. This first one is just for basic face make-up. It's what I do to my face before every look, and it'll tell you the products I use, too.
Once I feel like editing the next video, I'll upload it…it's going to be just a basic white/black/gray eye look.
Yay I'm excited this finally worked! Watch :)
ATTENTION: There is a girl named Jodie Rogers, that claims to be a certain Joey Miller and lies about having cancer, fakes her death and appears days after all of a sudden again. (Claiming she faked it to be able to organize a surprise party for her "friend" who is herself too.) AND she plays with people's feelings. Telling them that her aka "Joey Miller" wants to be with them etc. Please reblog and save hearts from getting broken and people falling into despression. Thank you.
Hmm…sorry this happened to you! It's unlikely that someone would use the same name over and over…but this is why I always say to never trust someone you've never met until you FaceTime or Skype, and even not to fully trust them until you meet. Especially if there is something like cancer involved…it sounds terrible to say, but it's usually a lie and a big indicator that you need to watch out. First of all, it's an excuse not to cam, and second…it's an easy out when they're done with the charade. Be careful my lovely followers, and be smart!
Probssss gonna do my make up tutorial tomorrow.
So if you were one of the anons who have been asking about me making one…keeep your eyes peeled
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